Kenya is a land of breathtaking scenery, incredible wildlife, and some of the warmest people you’ll ever meet. But before you go around high-fiving everyone, let’s talk about greetings! Getting it right can earn you instant respect—getting it wrong? Well, let’s just say you might get a few puzzled looks. Here’s everything you need to know about Kenyan greetings and etiquette.
1. The Mighty Handshake
Kenyans traditionally love a good handshake, and while COVID-19 briefly changed social interactions, things are gradually returning to normal. The good handshake is making a comeback! It’s not just a quick grip and release; it’s a whole experience. Expect a firm shake, possibly lasting several seconds, with added thumb grips in some cases. If someone holds onto your hand a little longer while chatting, don’t panic—it’s a sign of friendliness, not an invitation to an arm-wrestling match. That said, if you're unsure, let the other person initiate—it’s all about reading the situation!
2. The ‘Jambo’ Myth
“Jambo” is probably the most famous Swahili greeting, but here’s the truth—locals hardly use it! If you want to sound less like a tourist, go with:
- Habari yako? (How are you?)
- Mambo? (What’s up?)
- Niaje? (How’s it going?)
Now, if someone hits you with a rapid “Mambo?” just smile and respond with a cool “Poa” (It’s cool) to blend in effortlessly!
3. Respect Your Elders
Kenyan culture places HUGE importance on respect, especially for elders. Standing up when greeting them or using both hands in the handshake shows great courtesy. You’ll win extra points by addressing older people with “Shikamoo” (a respectful greeting, mostly used in coastal regions).
4. Hugs and Kisses? Maybe Not
While Kenyans are warm, hugging isn’t always the go-to greeting, especially for first-time meetings. Men often do handshakes or friendly shoulder bumps, while women may offer a handshake or a light hug among close friends. As for kisses on the cheek—nah, not really a thing here!
5. Swahili Magic Words
Throwing in some Swahili phrases makes a fantastic impression. Try these:
- Asante (Thank you)
- Karibu (Welcome)
- Nimefurahi kukutana nawe (Nice to meet you)
- Ndiyo (Yes)
- Hapana (No)
- Tafadhali (Please)
- Samahani (Sorry)
- Polé polé (Slowly, take it easy)
- Kwaheri (Goodbye)
6. The Art of Small Talk
Don’t just say “Hi” and run off! Kenyans appreciate a little small talk. Questions about family, work, or even the weather are common. But don’t rush it—enjoy the conversation. Time is flexible here!
7. Handing Over Items? Use Your Right Hand!
Whether giving money, a gift, or even a simple pen, always use your right hand. It’s a sign of respect. If you’re handing something to an elder, using both hands are even better!
8. Be Mindful of Personal Space
Friendly chats in Kenya often happen at close range, but that doesn’t mean you should invade someone’s bubble. If someone steps back, take the hint and give them space.
Final Tip: Stay at Hotel Topaz!
Get the best of Kenyan hospitality and practice your new greeting skills at Hotel Topaz—where warmth and comfort await you. Karibu!
